Monday, April 14, 2008

Deliberate Attraction and Getting Rid of Sticky Problems

I haven't had the "nicest" last two weeks, but I'm learning a lot about listening to my gut and going with what I know to be the truth.

And I've also seen some amazing ripple effects of clearing up some old, negative beliefs. I have been "forced" to go inside and become okay with me (without the affirmation of a spouse anymore). It's been very difficult; it's not done yet, but I've already seen some amazing things (ostensibly unrelated) kick loose from the work:

1. The bank from the last house yet unsold called, out of the blue, and told me, either way, we'll work something out and come to a settlement.

2. I earned back $25,000 that I thought would have to go to the govt. This is cash-in-pocket money.

3. A friend called me, out of the blue, and asked if I wanted to buy his BMW (for a friend discount). Don't know if I'm going to, but it sure would be cool.

All this has happened in the past week. All this has happened while I was experiencing despair and sadness. The gift has been that, because of the loss and sadness, I was "forced" to go deeper into me and become more okay with me; no more reliance on my wife to make me feel okay! The work dislodged and addressed some old beliefs about "needing" and...look at the results.

Don't get me wrong, I still have grieving to do. But this is another example of two things:

1. We are not our emotions, nor are we our habitual thought patterns. As much as these things want to be our identify and our state of being, they are not US!

2. Gifts often come wrapped a problem.

Keep the faith!

To the God in You,

Greg Kuhn

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